Down on The Tantric Lounge it’s all about men at the moment! We’ve just had two shows totally devoted to the male of the species.

The first show, Secret Men’s Business, was all about being a man. The key point made was that as a man you need to entice rather than thrust. It’s great that men desire their partners, but when that comes across as intensity then she’ll draw back and close off. It’s like shoving a chocolate cake in her face – it doesn’t matter how delicious the cake is, if its shoved in her face it won’t be appealing. Giving up and shutting off yourself is no solution, because then she’s got nothing to work with. What you need to do, energetically, is entice her: hold that cake a little away from her so she has the space to desire and move towards.

Then this week it was Black Belt in the Bedroom – how to be a great male lover. It’s not about tips and tricks, it’s about being calm, centered, connected, in control and creative. With this state of being you can arouse her to the point of the ‘horny face’ at which point she’s shifted into virtually an altered state of consciousness and from there she becomes fully sexually expressed. That’s when the good times roll….

Tune in to learn how, on The Tantric Lounge.


Jacqueline Hellyer is one of Australia’s foremost experts in sex, love and intimacy as well as the host of The Tantric Lounge on the VoiceAmerica Empowerment Channel.  She’s a Sex Geek, unabashedly fascinated by sex, love and intimacy in all its aspects from the biological to the psychological to the spiritual.

Educator, therapist, coach, author, blogger, workshop presenter and speaker, Jacqueline brings her extensive knowledge and experience to her work, combining the wisdom of the ancients with the best of modern scientific practice. Best of all, she shares what she knows in an incredibly open, playful and inspiring way.

“Sex is a celebration of life and our sexual energy is our fundamental life energy. Yet we live in a sexually dysfunctional society with millions of people confused, misinformed and struggling with their sexuality.”

“I’m committed to enabling women, men and couples to become fully in touch with their sexuality so that they can use this powerful energy for personal growth and transformation, allowing them to rise out of the mire of what passes for sex in our sexually immature society, and create extraordinary lives for themselves.”

“My job is to be a ‘light in the darkness’ to help guide people to fulfill their sexual potential and become truly empowered!”